John McEnroe's Son Writes Moving Essay About Relating to Nick Reiner: 'It's Difficult to Be Anonymous as the Son of Someone' Gillian TellingFebruary 4, 2026 at 7:08 AM 0 John and Kevin McEnroe SplashNews.com Kevin McEnroe, the author son of John McEnroe and Tatum O'Neal, wrote an essay about understanding aspects of Nick Reiner's life The nowsober writer says he relates deeply to the movie Being Charlie, which Rob Reiner directed and son Nick cowrote Nick is facing two counts of firstdegree murder in the deaths of his parents Rob and Michele Kevin McEnroe, a writer and the son of John McEnroe ...
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Kevin McEnroe, the author son of John McEnroe and Tatum O'Neal, wrote an essay about understanding aspects of Nick Reiner's life
The now-sober writer says he relates deeply to the movie Being Charlie, which Rob Reiner directed and son Nick cowrote
Nick is facing two counts of first-degree murder in the deaths of his parents Rob and Michele
Kevin McEnroe, a writer and the son of John McEnroe and Tatum O'Neal, is relating to the struggles Nick Reiner faced before being charged with two counts of first-degree murder in the deaths of his parents Rob and Michele.
The now-sober novelist, 39, wrote in his new essay for The Small Bow, "As someone who comes from a famous family, and who has a history of drug abuse and being institutionalized, that I could provide a perspective wherein the goal...is relatability — an attempt to identify with someone who's done something really, really wrong, and maybe a way to see how they got there."
McEnroe said scenes in the 2015 movie Being Charlie, which Rob directed and Nick cowrote, mirror his own life, especially the sequences involving rehab centers. Being Charlie starred Nick Robinson as title character Charlie, a young man who struggles with drug addiction and his relationship with his parents as his father David (Cary Elwes) campaigns for political office.
"I couldn't fathom how this place was helping me or anyone, and if you've been around long enough you begin to see, and feel, that your struggle and suffering is monetized," McEnroe wrote of his own experiences at rehab centers.
Nick, who has been open about his struggles with drug addiction and homelessness, went to rehab around 18 times before he even turned 22.
Rob Reiner and Nick Reiner discuss their film Being Charlie in 2016
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In his essay, McEnroe also related how difficult it can be to have a life of your own when you're born to someone famous.
"It's difficult to be anonymous as the son of someone," he wrote.
Tatum O'Neal, Kevin McEnroe and John McEnroe in 1986
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"For many years, after college, I worked in bars and always enjoyed the first few months because nobody knew who I was. Somebody would usually figure it out — often the boss, and he'd tell — and people either liked me more or less because of my father, but it was never the same. Sports fans seemed to want to hang, but for the most part people had a number of questions: What are you doing here?" McEnroe wrote.
He said that he mostly just craved anonymity.
"I just wanted to live without eyes. But when your birth is announced on the cover of Star Magazine, or if your dad directed Stand By Me, you don't really have that option," he shared. (Nick's dad Rob Reiner famously directed the 1986 coming-of-age classic.) "You'll never really have that choice. You can either run from it or embrace it; either way you can't care what people think," he wrote.
Kevin and John McEnroe at Kevin's wedding in 2025
In his essay, McEnroe credited Rob Reiner with doing his best for Nick, writing, it's "clear that he would've done just about anything — ANYTHING — for his boy to get better, and to feel better."
McEnroe said he eventually realized this about his own dad, recalling an incident where he'd skipped a lunch with him while he was still using drugs, and assuming he'd be in trouble for disappointing him again.
"I expected to hear [him say] some version of what I told myself every day. 'You're a piece of garbage,'" McEnroe wrote of letting his dad into his apartment after being a no-show. "Instead he motioned for me to stand, gave me a hug, with tears in his eyes, and told me he loved me, and then he left."
He said his father's action that day eventually helped him turn a corner. McEnroe is now sober, and living with his wife and dog in Upstate New York. "That's when I realized that it wasn't his fault, and maybe it wasn't anybody's."
He added, "Watching Being Charlie makes me feel sad about this disease and for the family desperate to love someone they can't save. My own family was once riddled with addiction, and its wake is devastating. But sobriety can bring calmer waters, clearer even than they were before. And, in that way, this film makes me love my dad, and maybe that'll make me a good one, some day, too, so for that it was all worth it."
Read Kevin McEnroe's full essay on The Small Bow.
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